Love is...

In every relationship, there would always be ups and downs. Struggles that sometimes feel like you want to give up because of severe pain and suffering from within.

Life is full of surprises. Nobody knows what will happen today, tomorrow or the other day. There are a lot of things that can change in just a minute or even a second – the most unexpected things can really happen in just a snap. The things that we used to have before without even asking for it can be gone in just a snap.

Sometimes thoughts and advices from other people can really cause a lot of pain and confusion to someone else without realizing it. It’s not bad to confide about your feelings or thoughts to someone else but you have to learn how to weigh things and to distinguish what is right and wrong.

Sometimes, I asked myself what is the real meaning and purpose of LOVE in this world. Love can bring happiness and sorrow to each person. It’s confusing but it also gives each person a different feeling – a feeling that can never be explained.

Love bears all things. Love is selfless. It is not achieved by force but rather felt unexpectedly.

As days passed by, I tend to learn the true meaning of love and that is: “LOVE is accepting and forgiving.” It understands and is given unconditionally regardless of whatever the situation is and whoever is the person involved in it. I also tend to realize that Love will not work without these 4 elements in it: acceptance, understanding, trust, and forgiveness.

We must learn to accept the people in our lives despite of their imperfections.

Understanding is the partner of patience in love.

Trust is something that is earned. It can be easily given to a person but once you’ve done something to destroy it, things may never be the same again as before.

It takes much courage and time to forgive a person. Acceptance is also a must in it.

Love is like a game. It is something that we have to fight for regardless if we will win in the end or not. In loving a person, we should be always ready to win or lose. After all, the most important thing in the end is that we fought for the person we love thinking that you can surpass whatever obstacles you have.

As the saying goes, “we are just humans who also get tired eventually”. This is a fact that everybody is experiencing and I’ve been here in this situation several times already.


From this day on, I will lift everything to the Lord God Almighty. I believe everything has a reason and God has always a purpose why He is letting things happen in our lives.

Whatever life brings me and wherever life takes me, I know God will always be there for me and that one day, He will give me someone who is more deserving of my love and care and that whom I will cherish and be with for the rest of my life.....


When God closes a door, he opens a window.... we just have to find where that opened window is.....